When we think of weight loss, we often think about what we eat. The questions we ask ourselves tend to revolve around how much fat, protein and carbs to eat, or whether beets help take off the pounds.
Diets touted in the media as optimal for weight loss abound, yet we remain a nation with an obesity problem.
What we tend to ignore, when we think of weight loss, is how we are approaching and managing the process of change. As important as it is to focus on what you eat to lose weight and keep it off, it is equally crucial to consider physical activity and maintaining lifestyle changes over time.
How to make behavioral changes, what strategies we use to adhere to new ways of eating and increasing physical activity cannot be ignored.
The problem is that making changes to your lifestyle is hard. If it weren't, we wouldn't have an obesity epidemic in this country, nor would estimated health care costs for physical inactivity have been $76.6 billion in 2000 (admittedly an older statistic, but unlikely to have improved significantly in recent years).
Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT), which focuses on changing how you think about yourself, how you act, and circumstances that surround how you act, is an effective treatment for a wide range of problems, including weight loss. Key to it is its focus on making changes and sticking to them.
So, what CBT strategies help people to lose weight and change lifestyle behavior?
1. Goal setting.
If you want to meet the goals you set, consider the following three factors:
the more specific a goal, the more likely you are to achieve it;
ambitious goals are good, but overly ambitious goals can be discouraging;
regular feedback on progress improves outcomes.
When it comes to weight loss, then, a goal to eat fruit for dessert, rather than cake, is specific and can be clearly tracked. Specific goals around exercise or types of food you will eat — behaviors you have control over — are better than goals to improve cholesterol or glucose levels, which may fluctuate for reasons outside your immediate control.
2. Self-monitoring.
Self-monitoring requires that rather than beating yourself up for not attaining a goal, you attend to your own individual experiences. When you self-monitor, you begin to notice barriers, pay attention to physical cues and identify challenges to changing your behavior. Too often we rely on negative self-judgment to stay motivated and, in so doing, fail to recognize and plan for real barriers.
You can think of yourself as a scientist when you self-monitor. You may want to keep a log of your food intake or exercise routines, for example. Doing so will help you to problem-solve when life has gotten busy or you get off track. With greater awareness of your own experience, you are better able to find ways to maintain new behaviors when initial motivation is waning.
3. Feedback and reinforcement.
It can be helpful to get feedback from outside sources. Having a health care provider regularly check in with you can provide an external measuring stick. Feedback about your diet or exercise routine can provide motivation or help you adjust your behavior. Outside feedback also can help you keep your expectations ambitious but realistic.
4. Boosting the belief that you can do it.
When you go into any situation with the attitude that you will surely fail, you greatly reduce your odds of succeeding. It is essential to focus not just on behavior, but also on your perception of your ability to make the changes you want.
The best way to improve your belief in your ability to succeed is actually to have some success. Setting concrete and achievable goals, such as eating fruit at breakfast or replacing an after-dinner TV show with a walk, can build your confidence to set more ambitious goals.
If you're looking to improve your sense that you can do it, it also can help to look for people in similar circumstances who have made the difficult changes you are trying to make and to surround yourself with people who will encourage your efforts.
5. Incentives.
The use of incentives to support change in behavior has been extensively studied and the concept is now being applied to regaining and maintaining physical health. Examples include companies that offer lower-priced onsite fitness facilities as an incentive to exercise, offering cash incentives and gift cards, providing free health coaching and offering insurance premium discounts to those who meet certain standards.
Adopting a healthier lifestyle isn't simply a matter of changing the foods in your cupboards. Lifestyle changes take sustained efforts over time and whether we achieve our goals depends on how we make them, our mindset and what we put in place to maintain motivation.
Friday, 20 September 2013
Monday, 16 September 2013
Olamide 'Bado' Care Less Of 6 Pacs
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OLAMIDE CARE LESS OF 6 PACS



Who says without six pacs a guy is not sexy, and with a protruding stomach, girls give you the red light?
Olamide, in his current video 'Kodurosoke', has defiled the believe that a man without six packs is not sexy with his protruding stomach, showing it off all through in an unbuttoned shirt he wore in the video. He's no doubt loved by his female fans and don't think they will no longer love him for not having six pacs.
Six pacs versus protruding stomach, reminds me of Rick Ross who confidently shows off his protruding stomach, telling whoever cares to listen; six packs or not, he's still super fly and cool with what he got.
A new song by Jahbless had him say six packs is for boys, while protruding stomach is for men, cause men with it spend more than boys with six pacs.
Guys, the question is, 6 pacs versus protruded stomach which one is better?
OLAMIDE CARE LESS OF 6 PACS



Who says without six pacs a guy is not sexy, and with a protruding stomach, girls give you the red light?
Olamide, in his current video 'Kodurosoke', has defiled the believe that a man without six packs is not sexy with his protruding stomach, showing it off all through in an unbuttoned shirt he wore in the video. He's no doubt loved by his female fans and don't think they will no longer love him for not having six pacs.
Six pacs versus protruding stomach, reminds me of Rick Ross who confidently shows off his protruding stomach, telling whoever cares to listen; six packs or not, he's still super fly and cool with what he got.
A new song by Jahbless had him say six packs is for boys, while protruding stomach is for men, cause men with it spend more than boys with six pacs.
Guys, the question is, 6 pacs versus protruded stomach which one is better?
Video: Robin Van persie Speaks Of Psquare
Psquare has a fan in no less a footballer than Manchester United's striker Robin Van Persie. In a chat with Manchester United legend, Paddy Crerand, Van Persie lists Psquare as one of the music acts he listens to.
Jude Engees, Psquare's manager posted a video of the exchange on twitter:
Manchester Unite Robin Van Persie is a PSQUARE fan. http://t.co/xuu0ZXyfFG Cc… http://t.co/EPE4tfnEoe
Jude Engees, Psquare's manager posted a video of the exchange on twitter:
Manchester Unite Robin Van Persie is a PSQUARE fan. http://t.co/xuu0ZXyfFG Cc… http://t.co/EPE4tfnEoe
Sunday, 15 September 2013
Justin Bieber Set To Play ROBIN In New Batman Film
Justin Bieber has posted a picture to social media of a copy of the script for the new Batman movie, watermarked with his name, sparking rumours he could be in line to play Robin.
The image, posted on his Instagram account, shows the script for the new Batman vs. Superman film bearing a large imprint of his surname implying it was meant specifically for him.
Ben Affleck was announced as the new Batman last month to a hostile reception from comic book fans. British actor Henry Cavill has been confirmed to play Superman, after appearing as the character in this year's film Man of Steel.
Bieber has previously expressed his love of the superhero, going as far as having a custom-built Batmobile made for him.
Explaining the customisation of the black cadillac, he said: "I just liked the idea. I just liked the idea that it could look like that. I am [a Batman fan]. But I just liked the car."
However, shortly after posting the picture, Bieber tweeted "Off to do something funny or...die :)", apparently making reference to Will Ferrell's comedy site and implying the script could be a prop in a spoof video
The image, posted on his Instagram account, shows the script for the new Batman vs. Superman film bearing a large imprint of his surname implying it was meant specifically for him.
Ben Affleck was announced as the new Batman last month to a hostile reception from comic book fans. British actor Henry Cavill has been confirmed to play Superman, after appearing as the character in this year's film Man of Steel.
Bieber has previously expressed his love of the superhero, going as far as having a custom-built Batmobile made for him.
Explaining the customisation of the black cadillac, he said: "I just liked the idea. I just liked the idea that it could look like that. I am [a Batman fan]. But I just liked the car."
However, shortly after posting the picture, Bieber tweeted "Off to do something funny or...die :)", apparently making reference to Will Ferrell's comedy site and implying the script could be a prop in a spoof video
Thursday, 12 September 2013
FG Orders 53 Gold Plated Iphones To Celebrate Independence
Gold and Co iPhone
British luxury products company, Gold and Co, has revealed that it has an order from the federal government to deliver 53 customised gold iphones for the celebration of the 53rd independence anniversary on October 1.
The founder of Gold and Co, Amjad Ali, was quoted as telling the United Kingdom's Independent Newspaper that the Nigerian government had made an order of "53 gold iPhones to mark the country's 53rd year of independence from Britain next month."
Ali said the order from the federal government was that the iPhones "will be engraved with Nigeria's coat of arms, a shield and two horses."
Ali's Gold and Co. clients include royal families, governments and wealthy individuals from across the world.
A gold-plated device costs between £3,000 and £50,000 (N750,000 to N12.5 million).
The order from the government with its customised coat of arm is believed to be among the constant premium orders the company gets.
The London-based company recently received an order from the Saudi Arabia royal family for "a gold iPhone studded with hundreds of diamonds, including a giant piece that served as the device's 'home' button."
British luxury products company, Gold and Co, has revealed that it has an order from the federal government to deliver 53 customised gold iphones for the celebration of the 53rd independence anniversary on October 1.
The founder of Gold and Co, Amjad Ali, was quoted as telling the United Kingdom's Independent Newspaper that the Nigerian government had made an order of "53 gold iPhones to mark the country's 53rd year of independence from Britain next month."
Ali said the order from the federal government was that the iPhones "will be engraved with Nigeria's coat of arms, a shield and two horses."
Ali's Gold and Co. clients include royal families, governments and wealthy individuals from across the world.
A gold-plated device costs between £3,000 and £50,000 (N750,000 to N12.5 million).
The order from the government with its customised coat of arm is believed to be among the constant premium orders the company gets.
The London-based company recently received an order from the Saudi Arabia royal family for "a gold iPhone studded with hundreds of diamonds, including a giant piece that served as the device's 'home' button."
Asuu Strike: Jobberman Tasks Student's On Website Training.
Jobberman.com, a popular job website in Nigeria and one of the top 10 Tech Startups in Africa has called on students of tertiary institutions to use the occasion of the ongoing strike embarked upon by the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU), to learn new and profitable skills in website design and development.
"ASUU strike need not be a negative phenomenon for Nigerian undergraduates. During an industrial strike in August 2009, three young students used the opportunity of the strike to start online jobs after the acquisition of website skills," Jobberman founders said in a statement.
The founders of jobs portal known as Jobberman, shared the story of how they started as undergraduates in the country.
According to the Jobberman story, it all started with three young men: Opeyemi Awoyemi, Olalekan Olude and Ayodeji Adewunmi who were all university students. They shared the same interest in the Internet space and started Jobberman from the Obafemi Awolowo University campus during the Industrial Strike Action by ASUU in August 2009.
They agreed to work on the job space for a number of reasons including: a low capital requirement (considering that they were students at that time), huge market opportunity and superior product differentiation.
Jobberman at inception was financed from a pool of funds created from their stipends. To kick off their business, they needed to get a company registered and they approached a leading legal luminary, and incorporated the business as a Limited Liability Company. And that was the beginning of Jobberman.
According to Jobberman CEO, Ayodeji Adewunmi, "The Ongoing ASUU strike has presented itself again, an opportunity for Nigerian students to hone skills early enough in the workplace and gain competitive advantage in the labour market."
Today Jobberman has grown to become one of the biggest job websites in West Africa with over 800,000 users and 14,000 companies providing the latest jobs in Nigeria.
"ASUU strike need not be a negative phenomenon for Nigerian undergraduates. During an industrial strike in August 2009, three young students used the opportunity of the strike to start online jobs after the acquisition of website skills," Jobberman founders said in a statement.
The founders of jobs portal known as Jobberman, shared the story of how they started as undergraduates in the country.
According to the Jobberman story, it all started with three young men: Opeyemi Awoyemi, Olalekan Olude and Ayodeji Adewunmi who were all university students. They shared the same interest in the Internet space and started Jobberman from the Obafemi Awolowo University campus during the Industrial Strike Action by ASUU in August 2009.
They agreed to work on the job space for a number of reasons including: a low capital requirement (considering that they were students at that time), huge market opportunity and superior product differentiation.
Jobberman at inception was financed from a pool of funds created from their stipends. To kick off their business, they needed to get a company registered and they approached a leading legal luminary, and incorporated the business as a Limited Liability Company. And that was the beginning of Jobberman.
According to Jobberman CEO, Ayodeji Adewunmi, "The Ongoing ASUU strike has presented itself again, an opportunity for Nigerian students to hone skills early enough in the workplace and gain competitive advantage in the labour market."
Today Jobberman has grown to become one of the biggest job websites in West Africa with over 800,000 users and 14,000 companies providing the latest jobs in Nigeria.
Wednesday, 11 September 2013
Iphone 5s And Iphone 5c Released.
Phone 55
Apple will be releasing the new iPhone this month; we're days away from Apple's announcement of the iPhone 5S and iPhone 5C. When it comes to smartphones, the first few months of 2013 moved the proverbial goalposts. Android handsets flourished with Full HD screens, aluminium or glass unibodies and every feature under the sun.
Apple's iPhone 5 has been on the scene for a while now but its thunder is in danger of being stolen by the Android Army.
The new iPhone is expected to come in more than two colours as did the older models of slate-black and silver-white colors. Yes, at long last, it looks like Apple is finally kowtowing to the consumers who have been begging for a cheaper iPhone for years. The rumored iPhone 5S specs, except for the possibility of an integrated fingerprint scanner, aren't all that exciting, however.
Let's dive straight into what we know (and don't know) about the iPhone 5S and iPhone 5C.
Its expected Apple will use the A6X chip currently found in the latest iPad. However, the latest rumours suggest Apple could be working on an A7 chip for the forthcoming iPad 5.
In years gone by, Apple has previously worked with Samsung to produce processors for it's iPhone range. But, given the recent legal tussles between the two companies, many speculate that Apple will want to distance itself from the Korean company. Some rumours have hinted at an Intel chip being included in the next iteration of the iPhone.
The best leaks currently peg the iPhone 5S's hardware as a somewhat incremental upgrade of the iPhone 5. There will the same dual-core CPU but clocked or rated a bit higher, an upgraded quad-core SGX544MP4 GPU, 2GB of RAM, and an IGZO screen which helps for increased brightness and/or reduced power consumption invariably prolonging the battery life. The camera should be bumped up to 12 or 13 -megapixels, and there should be a dual-LED flash. Perhaps most significantly, it currently looks like there will be a champagne light gold and graphite variant of the iPhone 5S.
In terms of storage, there is the strong possibility of Apple launching a new phone with 128GB storage – similar to the latest iPad upgrade.
Meanwhile Jeffries analyst Peter Misek told Business Insider that he believes the iPhone 5S will feature a "Super HD screen" along with a range of colours similar to the iPod Touch range. Considering all the top Android handsets feature Full HD displays, we reckon its unlikely Apple will launch the iPhone 5S with anything less than a 1,920 x 1,080 pixel resolution.
In terms of new features, the iPhone 5S will seemingly have NFC and a fingerprint reader. NFC functionality isn't all that surprising, considering many Android phones have supported it for two years or more. The fingerprint reader is an interesting rumor that hasn't gone away since Apple acquired Authentec, which has lots of fingerprint scanning-related IP. A recent rumor suggests that the Apple will use a sapphire glass Home button, with a fingerprint reader underneath it. Sapphire glass is very durable, which is one of the selling point —sapphire glass is probably a bit overkil
Apple will be releasing the new iPhone this month; we're days away from Apple's announcement of the iPhone 5S and iPhone 5C. When it comes to smartphones, the first few months of 2013 moved the proverbial goalposts. Android handsets flourished with Full HD screens, aluminium or glass unibodies and every feature under the sun.
Apple's iPhone 5 has been on the scene for a while now but its thunder is in danger of being stolen by the Android Army.
The new iPhone is expected to come in more than two colours as did the older models of slate-black and silver-white colors. Yes, at long last, it looks like Apple is finally kowtowing to the consumers who have been begging for a cheaper iPhone for years. The rumored iPhone 5S specs, except for the possibility of an integrated fingerprint scanner, aren't all that exciting, however.
Let's dive straight into what we know (and don't know) about the iPhone 5S and iPhone 5C.
Its expected Apple will use the A6X chip currently found in the latest iPad. However, the latest rumours suggest Apple could be working on an A7 chip for the forthcoming iPad 5.
In years gone by, Apple has previously worked with Samsung to produce processors for it's iPhone range. But, given the recent legal tussles between the two companies, many speculate that Apple will want to distance itself from the Korean company. Some rumours have hinted at an Intel chip being included in the next iteration of the iPhone.
The best leaks currently peg the iPhone 5S's hardware as a somewhat incremental upgrade of the iPhone 5. There will the same dual-core CPU but clocked or rated a bit higher, an upgraded quad-core SGX544MP4 GPU, 2GB of RAM, and an IGZO screen which helps for increased brightness and/or reduced power consumption invariably prolonging the battery life. The camera should be bumped up to 12 or 13 -megapixels, and there should be a dual-LED flash. Perhaps most significantly, it currently looks like there will be a champagne light gold and graphite variant of the iPhone 5S.
In terms of storage, there is the strong possibility of Apple launching a new phone with 128GB storage – similar to the latest iPad upgrade.
Meanwhile Jeffries analyst Peter Misek told Business Insider that he believes the iPhone 5S will feature a "Super HD screen" along with a range of colours similar to the iPod Touch range. Considering all the top Android handsets feature Full HD displays, we reckon its unlikely Apple will launch the iPhone 5S with anything less than a 1,920 x 1,080 pixel resolution.
In terms of new features, the iPhone 5S will seemingly have NFC and a fingerprint reader. NFC functionality isn't all that surprising, considering many Android phones have supported it for two years or more. The fingerprint reader is an interesting rumor that hasn't gone away since Apple acquired Authentec, which has lots of fingerprint scanning-related IP. A recent rumor suggests that the Apple will use a sapphire glass Home button, with a fingerprint reader underneath it. Sapphire glass is very durable, which is one of the selling point —sapphire glass is probably a bit overkil
Pope Francis Assures Atheist: You Don't Need To Believe In God To Make Heaven
In comments likely to enhance his progressive reputation, Pope Francis has written a long, open letter to the founder of La Repubblica newspaper, Eugenio Scalfari, stating that non-believers would be forgiven by God if they followed their consciences.
Responding to a list of questions published in the paper by Mr Scalfari, who is not a Roman Catholic, Francis wrote: "You ask me if the God of the Christians forgives those who don't believe and who don't seek the faith. I start by saying – and this is the fundamental thing – that God's mercy has no limits if you go to him with a sincere and contrite heart. The issue for those who do not believe in God is to obey their conscience.
"Sin, even for those who have no faith, exists when people disobey their conscience."
Robert Mickens, the Vatican correspondent for the Catholic journal The Tablet, said the pontiff's comments were further evidence of his attempts to shake off the Catholic Church's fusty image, reinforced by his extremely conservative predecessor Benedict XVI. "Francis is a still a conservative," said Mr Mickens. "But what this is all about is him seeking to have a more meaningful dialogue with the world."
In a welcoming response to the letter, Mr Scalfari said the Pope's comments were "further evidence of his ability and desire to overcome barriers in dialogue with all".
In July, Francis signalled a more progressive attitude on sexuality, asking: "If someone is gay and is looking for the Lord, who am I to judge him?"
Responding to a list of questions published in the paper by Mr Scalfari, who is not a Roman Catholic, Francis wrote: "You ask me if the God of the Christians forgives those who don't believe and who don't seek the faith. I start by saying – and this is the fundamental thing – that God's mercy has no limits if you go to him with a sincere and contrite heart. The issue for those who do not believe in God is to obey their conscience.
"Sin, even for those who have no faith, exists when people disobey their conscience."
Robert Mickens, the Vatican correspondent for the Catholic journal The Tablet, said the pontiff's comments were further evidence of his attempts to shake off the Catholic Church's fusty image, reinforced by his extremely conservative predecessor Benedict XVI. "Francis is a still a conservative," said Mr Mickens. "But what this is all about is him seeking to have a more meaningful dialogue with the world."
In a welcoming response to the letter, Mr Scalfari said the Pope's comments were "further evidence of his ability and desire to overcome barriers in dialogue with all".
In July, Francis signalled a more progressive attitude on sexuality, asking: "If someone is gay and is looking for the Lord, who am I to judge him?"
Jonathan Sacks 9 Cabinet Leaders
Nigeria's President Goodluck Jonathan has sacked nine cabinet ministers in what is somewhat of a shocking move. It is his first major reshuffling since he was elected 2 years ago.
Just over 2 weeks ago, seven of the country's powerful state governors and former Vice-President Atiku Abubakar formed a splinter-group in the PDP, and this has caused major tensions in the ruling political party, and you get the sense that this reshuffling is an effect of that move.
Among those sacked are the ministers of foreign affairs, education, science and technology, housing and urban development, national planning, and environment. The ministers of state – the junior minister for each office – for power, agriculture and defence have also been sacked.
A spokeman told reporters that the sacked ministers will be replaced soon.
Just over 2 weeks ago, seven of the country's powerful state governors and former Vice-President Atiku Abubakar formed a splinter-group in the PDP, and this has caused major tensions in the ruling political party, and you get the sense that this reshuffling is an effect of that move.
Among those sacked are the ministers of foreign affairs, education, science and technology, housing and urban development, national planning, and environment. The ministers of state – the junior minister for each office – for power, agriculture and defence have also been sacked.
A spokeman told reporters that the sacked ministers will be replaced soon.
You Can Help Save A Life..... But Not Today!
Today, you just need to understand that we all know someone touched by mental illness. A family member, a close friend. Someone close to you is probably in pain and hurting, but you just don't realize it.
One of those people might be someone suffering from depression. Depression that isn't being treated. Or that's being treated, but not well treated.
If a person is battling severe depression that is untreated or badly treated, they may also be suffering from thoughts of death. Of wanting to die.
And that's where you come in. Because you can help.
Whether we realize it or not, we may know someone who is thinking of killing themselves. Too often, we only hear about someone's suicide after-the-fact; few run through a checklist of obvious warning signs ahead of time. And virtually nobody comes right out and says, "I want to kill myself," or, "I've been thinking of ending it all."
More often than not, if there are any signs, the signs are going to be subtle. A friend who withdraws more and declines to hang out with you, or begs off going out time and time again.
A family member who talks about feeling trapped in their job, or their family life, or just in life in general.
Someone who seems down and hopeless for weeks on end, but then suddenly one day is talking about happier things and is seemingly out of their funk.
"Oh, and by the way, do you remember that time we went to the amusement park and we both tried to hit the bell with the mallet? I won that big bear? Well, here, I want you to have it, I don't need it any more."
People who are severely depressed see no future for themselves. But once they've made the decision to take their own lives, they experience a new peacefulness. A calm acceptance. They've made their decision, and now all that's left to do is to tie up a few loose ends. Like giving away a few things that mean something to them to their friends and loved ones.
If a person has children or a partner, they will also often make sure their loved ones are taken care of before leaving. It could be a casual conversation with someone else in the family…
"Hey, if anything were ever to happen to me, you'd make sure Jill and the kids were looked after, right?"
"Is everything alright?"
"Oh sure, I just wanted to make sure, you know… I mean, people can get into accidents and stuff all the time."
Someone who is suicidal won't necessarily hit you over the head with signs and symptoms. They may be as subtle as some of these things, which are quickly denied if the person is confronted with them.
A single person's life can be saved. But it is most often — and most helpfully — saved by a loved one (not a stranger at the end of a crisis helpline). A loved one who makes the gut-wrenching and terrifying decision to reach out to another… And doesn't take "no" for an answer.
You can help save a life
One of those people might be someone suffering from depression. Depression that isn't being treated. Or that's being treated, but not well treated.
If a person is battling severe depression that is untreated or badly treated, they may also be suffering from thoughts of death. Of wanting to die.
And that's where you come in. Because you can help.
Whether we realize it or not, we may know someone who is thinking of killing themselves. Too often, we only hear about someone's suicide after-the-fact; few run through a checklist of obvious warning signs ahead of time. And virtually nobody comes right out and says, "I want to kill myself," or, "I've been thinking of ending it all."
More often than not, if there are any signs, the signs are going to be subtle. A friend who withdraws more and declines to hang out with you, or begs off going out time and time again.
A family member who talks about feeling trapped in their job, or their family life, or just in life in general.
Someone who seems down and hopeless for weeks on end, but then suddenly one day is talking about happier things and is seemingly out of their funk.
"Oh, and by the way, do you remember that time we went to the amusement park and we both tried to hit the bell with the mallet? I won that big bear? Well, here, I want you to have it, I don't need it any more."
People who are severely depressed see no future for themselves. But once they've made the decision to take their own lives, they experience a new peacefulness. A calm acceptance. They've made their decision, and now all that's left to do is to tie up a few loose ends. Like giving away a few things that mean something to them to their friends and loved ones.
If a person has children or a partner, they will also often make sure their loved ones are taken care of before leaving. It could be a casual conversation with someone else in the family…
"Hey, if anything were ever to happen to me, you'd make sure Jill and the kids were looked after, right?"
"Is everything alright?"
"Oh sure, I just wanted to make sure, you know… I mean, people can get into accidents and stuff all the time."
Someone who is suicidal won't necessarily hit you over the head with signs and symptoms. They may be as subtle as some of these things, which are quickly denied if the person is confronted with them.
A single person's life can be saved. But it is most often — and most helpfully — saved by a loved one (not a stranger at the end of a crisis helpline). A loved one who makes the gut-wrenching and terrifying decision to reach out to another… And doesn't take "no" for an answer.
You can help save a life
Monday, 9 September 2013
Must Read:The Misery Behind Sleep
We know we need it. If we don't get it, we're cranky, have trouble concentrating, tend to overeat and are more likely to make mistakes. Yet, with the crush of demanding schedules, bad habits, or sleep disturbances, we don't always get enough.
So what is happening during those precious hours when we're asleep? Is it really a time of restoration for our brains? And is it possible that it's more than that?
What happens in our brains while we're asleep is a question neuroscientist Penelope Lewis is trying to answer.
Lewis directs the Sleep and Memory Lab at the University of Manchester in England. In her new book, The Secret World of Sleep: The Surprising Science of the Mind at Rest, she discusses how sleep makes memory stronger, provides what she terms "spring cleaning" for the brain, and plays a role in depression.
How Sleep Strengthens Memory
Have you ever had an experience in which you're practicing a particular skill, say playing the piano, a golf swing or a new language? You go to bed tired and wake up to find you seem to have improved. You're able to play the piano piece more smoothly, your golf swing has straightened out or the words in the new language come more easily.
What happens when we sleep, Lewis says in an interview on National Public Radio, is that "the neural responses in your brain that are associated with things you've recently experienced are spontaneously replayed, or, we say, 'reactivated' while you're asleep."
And it is this reactivation that occurs during sleep that strengthens our memory. Our brains are, in effect, practicing while we sleep. Take playing the piano, for example. If during the day you moved your fingers to play a particular piece, the associated motor areas of your brain would become active while you sleep.
According to Lewis, neuroscientific inquiry is beginning to determine which skills improve with sleep and how such consolidation occurs in the brain.
What is "Spring Cleaning" for the Brain?
During our waking hours, we encounter a huge array of sensory information. We are constantly hearing, seeing, smelling, feeling and tasting. And we have thoughts and feelings about this wide range of sensory experiences. For example, on any given day, by breakfast you may have heard your alarm and thought to yourself that it's too loud; felt the warmth of the shower and noted a need to buy more soap; scrubbed the tiles or fixed a dripping faucet. You may have noted the feel of certain clothing and had any number of thoughts about your closet and the clothes available to you, all while listening to the radio, taking in news stories, noting a favorite song and mentally rehearsing for what the day ahead entails.
The point is that we are bombarded with sensory information all day long. According to Lewis in the interview on National Public Radio, "while we're busy doing things, experiencing things, seeing things, hearing things, learning things, processing different kinds of information, the connections between neurons in the brain get strengthened because they're trying to retain all of this information. And an awful lot of it is garbage; it's stuff you don't want to remember or don't care about — what you had for breakfast, or the color of a stain on the cover of a book or something. It's really not useful or interesting."
If we don't filter out some of this information, our brains become overloaded. We must have a way to sort through the information we receive during the day, storing and consolidating what is important and letting the rest go. That process, Lewis says, happens during sleep. During the deep stage of what is called slow-wave sleep, synapses get downscaled again, according to Lewis. This allows us to recall the salient aspects of our day, without being overwhelmed by unimportant details.
Sleep and Depression
Sleep, specifically REM sleep when we dream, has recently been connected to depressive episodes. REM sleep is associated with strengthening emotional memories. When someone is depressed, their emotional experiences during the day tend to be sad, miserable and depressed.
According to Hornung and colleagues, people who are depressed show drastic increases in REM. These depressed people also are biased toward negative memories. Recent research on antidepressant drugs has found that antidepressants correct the imbalance of REM sleep, while at the same time improving mood. The correlation between improved mood and suppression of REM sleep suggests that negative memories strengthened during REM sleep may play a role in maintaining depression.
We spend as much as a third of our lives asleep. Understanding what happens during sleep, how our brain processes information during sleep and how it serves a restorative function can help us to improve how we learn and determine how to treat emotional and cognitive problems that may be related to sleep.
So what is happening during those precious hours when we're asleep? Is it really a time of restoration for our brains? And is it possible that it's more than that?
What happens in our brains while we're asleep is a question neuroscientist Penelope Lewis is trying to answer.
Lewis directs the Sleep and Memory Lab at the University of Manchester in England. In her new book, The Secret World of Sleep: The Surprising Science of the Mind at Rest, she discusses how sleep makes memory stronger, provides what she terms "spring cleaning" for the brain, and plays a role in depression.
How Sleep Strengthens Memory
Have you ever had an experience in which you're practicing a particular skill, say playing the piano, a golf swing or a new language? You go to bed tired and wake up to find you seem to have improved. You're able to play the piano piece more smoothly, your golf swing has straightened out or the words in the new language come more easily.
What happens when we sleep, Lewis says in an interview on National Public Radio, is that "the neural responses in your brain that are associated with things you've recently experienced are spontaneously replayed, or, we say, 'reactivated' while you're asleep."
And it is this reactivation that occurs during sleep that strengthens our memory. Our brains are, in effect, practicing while we sleep. Take playing the piano, for example. If during the day you moved your fingers to play a particular piece, the associated motor areas of your brain would become active while you sleep.
According to Lewis, neuroscientific inquiry is beginning to determine which skills improve with sleep and how such consolidation occurs in the brain.
What is "Spring Cleaning" for the Brain?
During our waking hours, we encounter a huge array of sensory information. We are constantly hearing, seeing, smelling, feeling and tasting. And we have thoughts and feelings about this wide range of sensory experiences. For example, on any given day, by breakfast you may have heard your alarm and thought to yourself that it's too loud; felt the warmth of the shower and noted a need to buy more soap; scrubbed the tiles or fixed a dripping faucet. You may have noted the feel of certain clothing and had any number of thoughts about your closet and the clothes available to you, all while listening to the radio, taking in news stories, noting a favorite song and mentally rehearsing for what the day ahead entails.
The point is that we are bombarded with sensory information all day long. According to Lewis in the interview on National Public Radio, "while we're busy doing things, experiencing things, seeing things, hearing things, learning things, processing different kinds of information, the connections between neurons in the brain get strengthened because they're trying to retain all of this information. And an awful lot of it is garbage; it's stuff you don't want to remember or don't care about — what you had for breakfast, or the color of a stain on the cover of a book or something. It's really not useful or interesting."
If we don't filter out some of this information, our brains become overloaded. We must have a way to sort through the information we receive during the day, storing and consolidating what is important and letting the rest go. That process, Lewis says, happens during sleep. During the deep stage of what is called slow-wave sleep, synapses get downscaled again, according to Lewis. This allows us to recall the salient aspects of our day, without being overwhelmed by unimportant details.
Sleep and Depression
Sleep, specifically REM sleep when we dream, has recently been connected to depressive episodes. REM sleep is associated with strengthening emotional memories. When someone is depressed, their emotional experiences during the day tend to be sad, miserable and depressed.
According to Hornung and colleagues, people who are depressed show drastic increases in REM. These depressed people also are biased toward negative memories. Recent research on antidepressant drugs has found that antidepressants correct the imbalance of REM sleep, while at the same time improving mood. The correlation between improved mood and suppression of REM sleep suggests that negative memories strengthened during REM sleep may play a role in maintaining depression.
We spend as much as a third of our lives asleep. Understanding what happens during sleep, how our brain processes information during sleep and how it serves a restorative function can help us to improve how we learn and determine how to treat emotional and cognitive problems that may be related to sleep.
Must Read:The Misteries Behind Sleep
We know we need it. If we don't get it, we're cranky, have trouble concentrating, tend to overeat and are more likely to make mistakes. Yet, with the crush of demanding schedules, bad habits, or sleep disturbances, we don't always get enough.
So what is happening during those precious hours when we're asleep? Is it really a time of restoration for our brains? And is it possible that it's more than that?
What happens in our brains while we're asleep is a question neuroscientist Penelope Lewis is trying to answer.
Lewis directs the Sleep and Memory Lab at the University of Manchester in England. In her new book, The Secret World of Sleep: The Surprising Science of the Mind at Rest, she discusses how sleep makes memory stronger, provides what she terms "spring cleaning" for the brain, and plays a role in depression.
How Sleep Strengthens Memory
Have you ever had an experience in which you're practicing a particular skill, say playing the piano, a golf swing or a new language? You go to bed tired and wake up to find you seem to have improved. You're able to play the piano piece more smoothly, your golf swing has straightened out or the words in the new language come more easily.
What happens when we sleep, Lewis says in an interview on National Public Radio, is that "the neural responses in your brain that are associated with things you've recently experienced are spontaneously replayed, or, we say, 'reactivated' while you're asleep."
And it is this reactivation that occurs during sleep that strengthens our memory. Our brains are, in effect, practicing while we sleep. Take playing the piano, for example. If during the day you moved your fingers to play a particular piece, the associated motor areas of your brain would become active while you sleep.
According to Lewis, neuroscientific inquiry is beginning to determine which skills improve with sleep and how such consolidation occurs in the brain.
What is "Spring Cleaning" for the Brain?
During our waking hours, we encounter a huge array of sensory information. We are constantly hearing, seeing, smelling, feeling and tasting. And we have thoughts and feelings about this wide range of sensory experiences. For example, on any given day, by breakfast you may have heard your alarm and thought to yourself that it's too loud; felt the warmth of the shower and noted a need to buy more soap; scrubbed the tiles or fixed a dripping faucet. You may have noted the feel of certain clothing and had any number of thoughts about your closet and the clothes available to you, all while listening to the radio, taking in news stories, noting a favorite song and mentally rehearsing for what the day ahead entails.
The point is that we are bombarded with sensory information all day long. According to Lewis in the interview on National Public Radio, "while we're busy doing things, experiencing things, seeing things, hearing things, learning things, processing different kinds of information, the connections between neurons in the brain get strengthened because they're trying to retain all of this information. And an awful lot of it is garbage; it's stuff you don't want to remember or don't care about — what you had for breakfast, or the color of a stain on the cover of a book or something. It's really not useful or interesting."
If we don't filter out some of this information, our brains become overloaded. We must have a way to sort through the information we receive during the day, storing and consolidating what is important and letting the rest go. That process, Lewis says, happens during sleep. During the deep stage of what is called slow-wave sleep, synapses get downscaled again, according to Lewis. This allows us to recall the salient aspects of our day, without being overwhelmed by unimportant details.
Sleep and Depression
Sleep, specifically REM sleep when we dream, has recently been connected to depressive episodes. REM sleep is associated with strengthening emotional memories. When someone is depressed, their emotional experiences during the day tend to be sad, miserable and depressed.
According to Hornung and colleagues, people who are depressed show drastic increases in REM. These depressed people also are biased toward negative memories. Recent research on antidepressant drugs has found that antidepressants correct the imbalance of REM sleep, while at the same time improving mood. The correlation between improved mood and suppression of REM sleep suggests that negative memories strengthened during REM sleep may play a role in maintaining depression.
We spend as much as a third of our lives asleep. Understanding what happens during sleep, how our brain processes information during sleep and how it serves a restorative function can help us to improve how we learn and determine how to treat emotional and cognitive problems that may be related to sleep.
So what is happening during those precious hours when we're asleep? Is it really a time of restoration for our brains? And is it possible that it's more than that?
What happens in our brains while we're asleep is a question neuroscientist Penelope Lewis is trying to answer.
Lewis directs the Sleep and Memory Lab at the University of Manchester in England. In her new book, The Secret World of Sleep: The Surprising Science of the Mind at Rest, she discusses how sleep makes memory stronger, provides what she terms "spring cleaning" for the brain, and plays a role in depression.
How Sleep Strengthens Memory
Have you ever had an experience in which you're practicing a particular skill, say playing the piano, a golf swing or a new language? You go to bed tired and wake up to find you seem to have improved. You're able to play the piano piece more smoothly, your golf swing has straightened out or the words in the new language come more easily.
What happens when we sleep, Lewis says in an interview on National Public Radio, is that "the neural responses in your brain that are associated with things you've recently experienced are spontaneously replayed, or, we say, 'reactivated' while you're asleep."
And it is this reactivation that occurs during sleep that strengthens our memory. Our brains are, in effect, practicing while we sleep. Take playing the piano, for example. If during the day you moved your fingers to play a particular piece, the associated motor areas of your brain would become active while you sleep.
According to Lewis, neuroscientific inquiry is beginning to determine which skills improve with sleep and how such consolidation occurs in the brain.
What is "Spring Cleaning" for the Brain?
During our waking hours, we encounter a huge array of sensory information. We are constantly hearing, seeing, smelling, feeling and tasting. And we have thoughts and feelings about this wide range of sensory experiences. For example, on any given day, by breakfast you may have heard your alarm and thought to yourself that it's too loud; felt the warmth of the shower and noted a need to buy more soap; scrubbed the tiles or fixed a dripping faucet. You may have noted the feel of certain clothing and had any number of thoughts about your closet and the clothes available to you, all while listening to the radio, taking in news stories, noting a favorite song and mentally rehearsing for what the day ahead entails.
The point is that we are bombarded with sensory information all day long. According to Lewis in the interview on National Public Radio, "while we're busy doing things, experiencing things, seeing things, hearing things, learning things, processing different kinds of information, the connections between neurons in the brain get strengthened because they're trying to retain all of this information. And an awful lot of it is garbage; it's stuff you don't want to remember or don't care about — what you had for breakfast, or the color of a stain on the cover of a book or something. It's really not useful or interesting."
If we don't filter out some of this information, our brains become overloaded. We must have a way to sort through the information we receive during the day, storing and consolidating what is important and letting the rest go. That process, Lewis says, happens during sleep. During the deep stage of what is called slow-wave sleep, synapses get downscaled again, according to Lewis. This allows us to recall the salient aspects of our day, without being overwhelmed by unimportant details.
Sleep and Depression
Sleep, specifically REM sleep when we dream, has recently been connected to depressive episodes. REM sleep is associated with strengthening emotional memories. When someone is depressed, their emotional experiences during the day tend to be sad, miserable and depressed.
According to Hornung and colleagues, people who are depressed show drastic increases in REM. These depressed people also are biased toward negative memories. Recent research on antidepressant drugs has found that antidepressants correct the imbalance of REM sleep, while at the same time improving mood. The correlation between improved mood and suppression of REM sleep suggests that negative memories strengthened during REM sleep may play a role in maintaining depression.
We spend as much as a third of our lives asleep. Understanding what happens during sleep, how our brain processes information during sleep and how it serves a restorative function can help us to improve how we learn and determine how to treat emotional and cognitive problems that may be related to sleep.
Chelsea Player Walks Out On National Team, Leaves Team Hotel After Disagreement.
New Chelsea signing Samuel Eto'o has walked out on the Cameroon national team after their 1-0 victory over Libya. The forward told his team mates that he was leaving the group and he didn't return to the hotel with the rest of the squad.
Their win over Libya today meant they clinched the final qualifying spot for the play offs for next year's World Cup in Brazil. French newspaper L'Equipe reported that Eto'o had told the team he was leaving the squad for personal reasons and he wouldn't be coming back with them. According to L'Equipe he wanted the national coach to select players he felt should be in the team but the manager didn't back down. The situation was so bad that they had to bring in the country's sports minister to solve the problem but to no avail.
It has been reported the player hasn't trained all week with Cameroon as they prepared for the crucial game against Libya. It's not known if this is the end for Eto'o and Cameroon but it's certainly not the first time he's had disagreements with those in charge of the national team.
He's even been quoted slating team mates. In October, Sky Sports found quotes of him reacting badly to being compared to Alex Song and suggestions there was a rivalry between the pair "We are not involved in a conflict between two star players.
"I am among the best players in the world and Song is not even among the best players in Cameroon."
If this is the end for Eto'o and Cameroon, and that would be unlikely with the World Cup on the horizon, then it could suit Chelsea. What could suit both is him only being available for matches he wishes to play in, dependent on what Cameroon would make of that. Whether they'll let him pick the team, as he seems to think he should be able to, is another matter entirely.
Their win over Libya today meant they clinched the final qualifying spot for the play offs for next year's World Cup in Brazil. French newspaper L'Equipe reported that Eto'o had told the team he was leaving the squad for personal reasons and he wouldn't be coming back with them. According to L'Equipe he wanted the national coach to select players he felt should be in the team but the manager didn't back down. The situation was so bad that they had to bring in the country's sports minister to solve the problem but to no avail.
It has been reported the player hasn't trained all week with Cameroon as they prepared for the crucial game against Libya. It's not known if this is the end for Eto'o and Cameroon but it's certainly not the first time he's had disagreements with those in charge of the national team.
He's even been quoted slating team mates. In October, Sky Sports found quotes of him reacting badly to being compared to Alex Song and suggestions there was a rivalry between the pair "We are not involved in a conflict between two star players.
"I am among the best players in the world and Song is not even among the best players in Cameroon."
If this is the end for Eto'o and Cameroon, and that would be unlikely with the World Cup on the horizon, then it could suit Chelsea. What could suit both is him only being available for matches he wishes to play in, dependent on what Cameroon would make of that. Whether they'll let him pick the team, as he seems to think he should be able to, is another matter entirely.
Mikel, Moses To Miss Burkina faso Friendly
John Mikel Obi and Victor Moses will not be part of Tuesday's friendly international against Burkina Faso in Kaduna.
Both players asked for permission and were excused by coach Stephen Keshi after Saturday's 2-0 win over Malawi.
The duo were not part of the squad that left Calabar on Sunday morning for Kaduna via Abuja.
It is unclear as yet if Keshi will call up any replacements or stick with the 21 players currently en route to Kaduna.
Moses recently joined Liverpool on loan from Chelsea
Both players asked for permission and were excused by coach Stephen Keshi after Saturday's 2-0 win over Malawi.
The duo were not part of the squad that left Calabar on Sunday morning for Kaduna via Abuja.
It is unclear as yet if Keshi will call up any replacements or stick with the 21 players currently en route to Kaduna.
Moses recently joined Liverpool on loan from Chelsea
Sunday, 8 September 2013
What Parent's Need To Know About Childhood Drepression
One of the biggest myths about childhood depression (also known as pediatric depression) is that it doesn't exist.
However, depression is a real illness that affects both adults and kids. In fact, kids as young as 3 years old can have depression.
Depression can even affect babies, who tend to exhibit symptoms such as unresponsiveness, lethargy, inconsolable crying and feeding problems, writes Deborah Serani, PsyD, a clinical psychologist who specializes in mood disorders, in her new book Depression and Your Child: A Guide for Parents and Caregivers.
Below, she revealed what pediatric depression looks like, along with what you can do if you spot these signs.
Signs & Symptoms of Pediatric Depression
Depression tends to manifest differently in kids than it does in adults. "For the most part, children and teens experience fatigue and irritability and other physical complaints," such as aches and pains, Serani said.
Kids also may seem bored and withdrawn and experience loss of interest. In her book Depression and Your Child, Serani writes, "This is called anhedonia, and children show this deflated disposition in play, with sports, friends, in school, and in other previously loved hobbies or activities."
Hopelessness and helplessness can manifest as negative self-talk with phrases such as "I am bad" and "I can't do anything right," she said.
Because depression distorts thinking, it can shrink a child's self-worth. Kids may "feel worthless or unlovable, useless or stupid," Serani writes in her book.
Another sign is behavior change, she said. A child who typically does well in school might start getting failing grades. They also might give away beloved toys or start sleeping more, said Serani, also author of the book Living with Depression.
In addition, kids might hide or sequester themselves, she said. "Young children who experience depression like to tuck themselves in their room when they're sad or to avoid family or social interactions."
When she was depressed as a child, Serani had a secret hiding place near the basement boiler that made her feel safe. "It was quiet and warm there, and I could just rest without anyone asking anything of me."
What Caregivers Can Do
If you notice the above signs, Serani suggested the following:
Pay attention to the duration of the symptoms.
"Is this just a bad day, or has it been a few bad days in a row?" For instance, your child might be struggling with something serious if their fatigue, irritability and sadness last longer than one or two weeks and permeate different parts of their lives, she said.
Take your child for a full medical checkup.
Many conditions can look like depression, Serani said. "For example, diabetes, anemia, mononucleosis or a simple streptococcus infection can mimic depressive symptoms." That's why ruling out medical conditions first is key.
Get a comprehensive evaluation from a mental health professional.
If there's no medical condition that accounts for the symptoms, take your child to a practitioner who specializes in mood disorders. An extensive assessment will help determine if your child has depression, and what treatments are best. It'll also let you know if your child is struggling with subclinical issues, which Serani calls "a low boil." This means that your child has symptoms of depression but doesn't meet the diagnostic criteria for the disorder. This is important to know because you "can learn what kinds of interventions can be used to prevent a full-blown disorder from developing."
Get effective treatment.
Depression doesn't go away on its own. "It's a chronic illness that can't be willed away or brushed aside with a change in attitude. It won't go away if a parent yells, gets extra strict or ignores the problem either." Play therapy and family therapy are helpful for toddlers and preschoolers. Individual talk therapy is helpful for teens. Medication also may be necessary for some kids.
"My best advice is for parents to become well read on the subject of pediatric depression and find an experienced professional team to work with."
Having a child who's depressed is challenging, Serani said. But there's also insight and growth that can come from managing this illness, she said.
"I was a child who had depression, and though I have to contend with taking medication for the rest of my life, there is so much more to who I am than my depression. And in fact, I'd say that what I've come to appreciate in life has happened not in spite of having depression, but, in truth, because of it."
However, depression is a real illness that affects both adults and kids. In fact, kids as young as 3 years old can have depression.
Depression can even affect babies, who tend to exhibit symptoms such as unresponsiveness, lethargy, inconsolable crying and feeding problems, writes Deborah Serani, PsyD, a clinical psychologist who specializes in mood disorders, in her new book Depression and Your Child: A Guide for Parents and Caregivers.
Below, she revealed what pediatric depression looks like, along with what you can do if you spot these signs.
Signs & Symptoms of Pediatric Depression
Depression tends to manifest differently in kids than it does in adults. "For the most part, children and teens experience fatigue and irritability and other physical complaints," such as aches and pains, Serani said.
Kids also may seem bored and withdrawn and experience loss of interest. In her book Depression and Your Child, Serani writes, "This is called anhedonia, and children show this deflated disposition in play, with sports, friends, in school, and in other previously loved hobbies or activities."
Hopelessness and helplessness can manifest as negative self-talk with phrases such as "I am bad" and "I can't do anything right," she said.
Because depression distorts thinking, it can shrink a child's self-worth. Kids may "feel worthless or unlovable, useless or stupid," Serani writes in her book.
Another sign is behavior change, she said. A child who typically does well in school might start getting failing grades. They also might give away beloved toys or start sleeping more, said Serani, also author of the book Living with Depression.
In addition, kids might hide or sequester themselves, she said. "Young children who experience depression like to tuck themselves in their room when they're sad or to avoid family or social interactions."
When she was depressed as a child, Serani had a secret hiding place near the basement boiler that made her feel safe. "It was quiet and warm there, and I could just rest without anyone asking anything of me."
What Caregivers Can Do
If you notice the above signs, Serani suggested the following:
Pay attention to the duration of the symptoms.
"Is this just a bad day, or has it been a few bad days in a row?" For instance, your child might be struggling with something serious if their fatigue, irritability and sadness last longer than one or two weeks and permeate different parts of their lives, she said.
Take your child for a full medical checkup.
Many conditions can look like depression, Serani said. "For example, diabetes, anemia, mononucleosis or a simple streptococcus infection can mimic depressive symptoms." That's why ruling out medical conditions first is key.
Get a comprehensive evaluation from a mental health professional.
If there's no medical condition that accounts for the symptoms, take your child to a practitioner who specializes in mood disorders. An extensive assessment will help determine if your child has depression, and what treatments are best. It'll also let you know if your child is struggling with subclinical issues, which Serani calls "a low boil." This means that your child has symptoms of depression but doesn't meet the diagnostic criteria for the disorder. This is important to know because you "can learn what kinds of interventions can be used to prevent a full-blown disorder from developing."
Get effective treatment.
Depression doesn't go away on its own. "It's a chronic illness that can't be willed away or brushed aside with a change in attitude. It won't go away if a parent yells, gets extra strict or ignores the problem either." Play therapy and family therapy are helpful for toddlers and preschoolers. Individual talk therapy is helpful for teens. Medication also may be necessary for some kids.
"My best advice is for parents to become well read on the subject of pediatric depression and find an experienced professional team to work with."
Having a child who's depressed is challenging, Serani said. But there's also insight and growth that can come from managing this illness, she said.
"I was a child who had depression, and though I have to contend with taking medication for the rest of my life, there is so much more to who I am than my depression. And in fact, I'd say that what I've come to appreciate in life has happened not in spite of having depression, but, in truth, because of it."
Saturday, 7 September 2013
PHOTO:'ZOE' The Zebra With a Golden Strip
This Zebra named ZOE was given birth to in 1998 with a golden strip on it's body instead of black and blue eyes instead of black.So Incredible!!
Realmadrid Boss 'Upset'After Players Revolt Over Mesut Ozil To Arsenal
lorentino Perez quite often appears to not to 'get' things, it would seem that he has trouble understanding others and showing empathy toward Real Madrid players. According to El Confidencial, well connected to Real Madrid, the club president is upset at the reaction of players to the departure of Mesut Ozil. The same newspaper looked like it had been used to do the groundwork for the transfer, Ozil was accused of acting up to get a huge pay rise and even fabricating interest from other clubs in order to pressure Perez.
It didn't work, much as it looked like Real Madrid were trying to turn people against Ozil, there was still a huge reaction to his exit. The situation has put Perez and new signing Gareth Bale under pressure. If the move doesn't work out then the discontent at losing Ozil and paying twice as much for Bale is only going to grow, and Perez doesn't like it. Arsenal are still in a state of delirium and it's no problem for Wenger, but it must be nice for fans of the London club to know how much Madrid misses Ozil.
El Confidencial insist that Real Madrid players knew all about the tactics being used by Ozil to try and get a big pay rise and therefore say that Perez has been shocked by the reaction of the dressing room. The plan from the boardroom at Real Madrid clearly didn't work and now they just want everyone to keep quiet and get on with things.
The better Ozil does at Arsenal then the worse it will be for Perez to insist he did the right thing, unless Bale is an instant success.
It didn't work, much as it looked like Real Madrid were trying to turn people against Ozil, there was still a huge reaction to his exit. The situation has put Perez and new signing Gareth Bale under pressure. If the move doesn't work out then the discontent at losing Ozil and paying twice as much for Bale is only going to grow, and Perez doesn't like it. Arsenal are still in a state of delirium and it's no problem for Wenger, but it must be nice for fans of the London club to know how much Madrid misses Ozil.
El Confidencial insist that Real Madrid players knew all about the tactics being used by Ozil to try and get a big pay rise and therefore say that Perez has been shocked by the reaction of the dressing room. The plan from the boardroom at Real Madrid clearly didn't work and now they just want everyone to keep quiet and get on with things.
The better Ozil does at Arsenal then the worse it will be for Perez to insist he did the right thing, unless Bale is an instant success.
Niggas In Paris:D'banj spotted At Henessy's Home
D'Banj is apparently in France on the invitation of Hennessy. The Nigerian pop star is the sole headliner for this year's Hennessy Artistry and he has already released the theme track for this year's project. He arrived France this morning from the US where he attended Davido's sister's wedding.
According to his people, he is already in Cognac (The home of Hennessy) where he's staying at the Chateau De Bangolet. Others on the visit are his manager Tony Nwakalor, Hennessy Brand manager Lere Awokoya, Marketing Manager Moet Hennessy Nigeria David Hourdry, Bolaji Kekere-Eku of 37th State and Ayeni Adekunle of BHM. D'Banj is staying in the same room where General Charles De Gaulle stayed when he visited the Hennessy mansion
According to his people, he is already in Cognac (The home of Hennessy) where he's staying at the Chateau De Bangolet. Others on the visit are his manager Tony Nwakalor, Hennessy Brand manager Lere Awokoya, Marketing Manager Moet Hennessy Nigeria David Hourdry, Bolaji Kekere-Eku of 37th State and Ayeni Adekunle of BHM. D'Banj is staying in the same room where General Charles De Gaulle stayed when he visited the Hennessy mansion
Like Ferguson! Like 'Obj'
Readers might be wondering what former Nigerian President, Olusegun Obasanjo and former Manchester United supremo, Sir Alex Ferguson have in common?
Apart from both of them having the word "former" attached to their names, they both played big parts in choosing their successors.
However, while we all know what became of Chief Obasanjo's own protégé, Ferguson's own is still a work in progress. But if what has transpired in the past few days is anything to go by, then United fans have a right to harbour fears over Fergie's choice of David Moyes to succeed him in the hot seat.
In the space of a few days the feel good factor that the 50-year-old had with his opening day win over Swansea and gritty performance against Chelsea has dissipated first with his defeat at Anfield and then United's quite frankly abject display in the summer transfer.
While Ferguson suffered his own share of setbacks at Liverpool many will question Moyes selection and tactics in arguably the biggest match of his pledging United reign.
For instance, why did he start Ryan Giggs for a match of such magnitude and then opt to leave him on and replace Ashley Young, who at the time of his replacement has been one of United's better players?
But if this was annoying, United's transfer dealing (or lack of it) is the one to set the alarm bells ringing. Is it that because of Moyes United has now lost the ability to attract players to Old Trafford?
Whatever be the reason United fans are clearly unhappy and worried with the fact that marquee players have not brought into the club. Even Moyes' fixation with Belgian midfielder, Marouane Fellaini has raised some eyebrows with a number of experts questioning the rationale pointing out that the former Everton man is not what United needs right now. "Fellaini, while a fine player, does not appear to be the identikit of the sort of midfield player needed to reinvigorate a department of United's team that is in urgent need of repair.
"He will provide power, aerial threat and goals. Fellaini will also provide an element of enforcement but will he really provide the element of craft and creation United's midfield needs?" wrote BBC's Chief football writer, Phil McNulty in his column.
Only time will tell if Ferguson's hand will end up like Obasanjo's or if it will turn out to be the move of the century – but until then, I suspect that we (United fans) are in for a nerve wracking, nail-biting season!
Apart from both of them having the word "former" attached to their names, they both played big parts in choosing their successors.
However, while we all know what became of Chief Obasanjo's own protégé, Ferguson's own is still a work in progress. But if what has transpired in the past few days is anything to go by, then United fans have a right to harbour fears over Fergie's choice of David Moyes to succeed him in the hot seat.
In the space of a few days the feel good factor that the 50-year-old had with his opening day win over Swansea and gritty performance against Chelsea has dissipated first with his defeat at Anfield and then United's quite frankly abject display in the summer transfer.
While Ferguson suffered his own share of setbacks at Liverpool many will question Moyes selection and tactics in arguably the biggest match of his pledging United reign.
For instance, why did he start Ryan Giggs for a match of such magnitude and then opt to leave him on and replace Ashley Young, who at the time of his replacement has been one of United's better players?
But if this was annoying, United's transfer dealing (or lack of it) is the one to set the alarm bells ringing. Is it that because of Moyes United has now lost the ability to attract players to Old Trafford?
Whatever be the reason United fans are clearly unhappy and worried with the fact that marquee players have not brought into the club. Even Moyes' fixation with Belgian midfielder, Marouane Fellaini has raised some eyebrows with a number of experts questioning the rationale pointing out that the former Everton man is not what United needs right now. "Fellaini, while a fine player, does not appear to be the identikit of the sort of midfield player needed to reinvigorate a department of United's team that is in urgent need of repair.
"He will provide power, aerial threat and goals. Fellaini will also provide an element of enforcement but will he really provide the element of craft and creation United's midfield needs?" wrote BBC's Chief football writer, Phil McNulty in his column.
Only time will tell if Ferguson's hand will end up like Obasanjo's or if it will turn out to be the move of the century – but until then, I suspect that we (United fans) are in for a nerve wracking, nail-biting season!
Figo Visits Zimbabwe
Real Madrid and FC Barcelona legend Lius Figo quietly sneaked into Zimbabwe on Thursday and left the following day on a visit believed to be for mining interests.
The 40-year-old's cover was blown up by airport workers at Bulawayo's Joshua Nkomo Airport, with some posting pictures on social media sites after posing with him. This created media hype and the Portuguese former star could not escape the press on his departure on Friday.
He was in the company of South African mining magnate Gayton Mackenzie and he promised to return to Zimbabwe soon and set up a charity foundation.
"Zimbabwe is a nice country and I enjoyed my brief stay here," Figo told an army of journalists who swarmed him.
"If an opportunity arises I would love to invest here just like any other business man and also expand my charity foundation here."
Mackenzie, however, said Figo's visit was a test-run to bring more high profile footballers to Zimbabwe.
Zimbabwe is well known for being rich in minerals like gold and diamonds, and Mackenzie ruled out any mining interests by the former World Footballer of the Year.
"I am planning to come with (Lionel) Messi, Cristiano (Ronaldo), (Zinedine) Zidane and Raul for a charity match against the Warriors legends. This is a pan at an advanced stage and am returning next week to try and talk to Zifa," Mackenzie said.
Former Manchester United striker Andy Cole used to run a charity organisation in Zimbabwe.
The 40-year-old's cover was blown up by airport workers at Bulawayo's Joshua Nkomo Airport, with some posting pictures on social media sites after posing with him. This created media hype and the Portuguese former star could not escape the press on his departure on Friday.
He was in the company of South African mining magnate Gayton Mackenzie and he promised to return to Zimbabwe soon and set up a charity foundation.
"Zimbabwe is a nice country and I enjoyed my brief stay here," Figo told an army of journalists who swarmed him.
"If an opportunity arises I would love to invest here just like any other business man and also expand my charity foundation here."
Mackenzie, however, said Figo's visit was a test-run to bring more high profile footballers to Zimbabwe.
Zimbabwe is well known for being rich in minerals like gold and diamonds, and Mackenzie ruled out any mining interests by the former World Footballer of the Year.
"I am planning to come with (Lionel) Messi, Cristiano (Ronaldo), (Zinedine) Zidane and Raul for a charity match against the Warriors legends. This is a pan at an advanced stage and am returning next week to try and talk to Zifa," Mackenzie said.
Former Manchester United striker Andy Cole used to run a charity organisation in Zimbabwe.
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